About Me
My name is Sebastian Wingfield and I am a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC #10006435) and a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC #22622).
Beyond my master's degree in counselling psychology, I have extensive training as an existential therapist and integrate elements of humanistic, psychodynamic, and contemporary cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques in my work to form an individualized treatment plan that is co-authored with the client.
Outside of counselling, I am professionally involved in research, training, and consultation with various organizations.
Education
The Existential Analysis Society of Canada
Affiliate of The International Society for Logotherapy and Existential Analysis
Post-Graduate Psychotherapy Diploma (M.Sc. equivalence) (Present)
Post-Graduate Self-Experience Diploma (2022)
Trinity Western University
Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology (2020)
Bachelor of Arts in Psychology, Minor in Special Needs Education (2018)
Professional Affiliations
My Approach
As people, I believe we live with two competing truths that exist within us.
These are: the truth that we control (our perspective, understanding, and judgment); and the truth that we do not control (our feelings, experiences, and impulses). These two truths are often in conflict with one another and create many challenging dilemmas in our life about how we should respond to our life situation.
Maybe you’ve noticed the conflict between these two for yourself? Consider a time when your feelings don’t match your perspective (e.g. “Why am I feeling so anxious right now? I know that I’m safe. This doesn’t make sense!).
As a counsellor, I help clients by facilitating a dialogue between these two truths so that they can experience a greater inner “yes” to their life situation!
Personal Background
My partner and I live in Langley, BC with our two daughters (three and five years old!). I love spending time with friends, playing & coaching soccer, disc golf, and chess. Prior to becoming a counsellor, I grew up in a military family in the United States and briefly played semi-professional soccer.
I grew up in an Evangelical Christian environment. Through my education in counselling as well as existential analysis, I was able to access a greater language for the parts of this that did not fit for me and felt incongruent with my experience. After having gone through a significant period of deconstruction, I have now come to reconstruct my belief system which includes a significant appreciation for Christianity. If you were to ask me what I believe in today, some people would call it Atheism; and others would call it Christianity. I’m not 100% sure what I would call it, but what has resonated most for me lately is the idea of being an “Existential Christian.” Given the significant transitions in my own worldview, I have become quite passionate about the idea of supporting the bridge-building process for people of all worldviews and ideologies—especially in recent times of civic unrest and political polarization—and have even become a professional member of the Corps of Depth Healers (CODH) in order to invest further into this work of bridging the divides in opposing worldviews.
Coming through my own mental health journey, where I have felt exhausted and stuck—navigating abusive relationships, family with complex trauma, and even pressures from soccer—I've been incredibly impacted by the counselling services that I have received in my life which helped me find: relief from anxiety, healthier relationships, self-acceptance, and a greater sense of meaning in my life. These experiences have really informed my practice, where I look to help others find their personal "yes" to life!
Past Workshops, Talks, and Scholarly Activity
Wingfield, S. (2025). An Existential Approach to Understanding OCD. Presented to Innova Therapy Inc., Maple Ridge, BC., February.
Wingfield, S., & Erasmus, A. (2023). Being oneself: A theoretical exploration of the concepts of person and personality through the integrative lens of Existential Analysis and Enneagram. 3rd World Existential Congress in Athens, Greece., May.
Wingfield, S., (2023). Finding meaning and building a future in elite athletics: The existential turn from performance to personal fulfillment. 3rd World Existential Congress in Athens, Greece., May.
Bork, V., Erasmus, A., Launeau, M., Noel, M., Wingfield, S., (2023). Living in the here and now: An existential-analytical perspective on embracing our physical, relational, and spiritual roots as persons in the world. 3rd World Existential Congress in Athens, Greece., May.
Wingfield, S. (2023). The Existential Enneagram for Interpersonal and Workplace Communication. Workshop presented for Stone Education Center, Joint Base Lewis McChord, WA., April.
Wingfield, S. (2023). An Existential Understanding of Grief. Workshop presented for Age Care: Monashee Mews on behalf of North Okanagan Hospice Society, Lumby, BC., February.
Wingfield, S. (2022). The Existential Enneagram. Workshop presented for Wingfield Counselling & Psychotherapy Services, Vernon, BC., October 1.
Switch Research (2022). Boundaries Journal. Selected by research team to peer review their work.
Wingfield, S., & Erasmus, A. (2019). A Brief Glimpse into Existential Analysis. Revista Existencia: Existence Magazine, (29).
Wingfield, S. (2019). Listening: Harder Than It Sounds. Workshop presented for City Collective Church, Mental Health Workshop (Learning to Listen) in Trinity Western House, Langley, BC., January 23.
Wingfield, S. (2019). Panel Discussion (What is Mental Health?). Guest Panelist for City Collective Church in Langley, BC., January 20.
Professional Development
Corps of Depth Healers Certificate Program: Emphasis on Bridge Building (Cohort 1)
Presented by Kirk Schneider, PhD and Tyler W. Gamlen, MS, MA
Sponsored by the Corps of Depth Healers, April 14-August 16, 2025
Certified Workshop Trainer: Introductory Workshops to Existential Analysis
Presented by the Kari-Ann Thor and Beth Daley
Sponsored by the Existential Analysis Society of Canada, April 2-3, 2022
Embodying the Inner Dialogue: an intervention for self-worth
Presented by Rochelle Chapman, MA, RCC
Sponsored by the Existential Analysis Society of Canada, October 30, 2022
Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) Training for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Presented by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC, LMHC.
Sponsored by NOCD, Online Training, August 30-September 1.
Trauma Focused Schools (2021)
Presented by Angela Murphy, MEd, School Psychologist.
Sponsored by Complex Trauma Resources., Online Course.
Telehealth for Mental Health Professionals: 2-Day Distance Therapy Training (2020)
Presented by Joni Gilbertson, MA, NCC, LCPC, BC-TMH
Sponsored by PESI, Inc., April 24.
Observed & Experiential Integration (OEI) Training Level 1 (2019)
Presented by Rick Bradshaw, Ph.D., and Audrey Cook, MA, MFT.
Sponsored by SightPsych Seminars Inc., Langley, BC. April 27-28.
Helping Children Heal from Complex Trauma (2019)
Presented by Kirk Austin, Ph.D., RCC.
Sponsored by Complex Trauma Resources., New Westminster, BC. April 25-26.
Lifespan Integration (LI) Training Level 2 (2019)
Presented by Catherine Thorpe, MA, LMHC.
Sponsored by Lifespan Integration®., Seattle, WA. March 15-16.
Understanding Abuse in Relationships Training (2019)
Presented by Karen McAndless-Davis.
Sponsored by End Abuse Program, Abbotsford, BC. March 8-10.
Lifespan Integration (LI) Training Level 1 (2019)
Presented by Catherine Thorpe, MA, LMHC.
Sponsored by Lifespan Integration®., Langley, BC. February 23-24.
Existential Analysis (EA) Introductory Seminar (2019)
Presented by Derrick Klassen, Ph.D., Janelle Kwee, Psy.D., and Mihaela Launeanu, Ph.D.
Sponsored by The Existential Analysis Society of Canada., Langley, BC. February 20-23.
Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1 Training: Bridging the Couple Chasm (2018)
Presented by John Gottman, Ph.D. and Julie Gottman, Ph.D.
Sponsored by the Gottman Institute., Langley, BC. October 12-13.